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                         In preparing a costume for a ball, choose something very light. Heavy, dark silks
                           are out of place in a ball room, and black should be worn in no material but lace. For a married lady, rich silk of some light
                           color, trimmed with flowers, lace, or tulle; white silk plain, or lace over satin, make an exquisite toilette. Jewels are
                           perfectly appropriate; also feathers in the coiffure.
 For the young
                           lady, pure white or light colors should be worn, and the most appropriate dress is of some thin material made over silk, white,
                           or the same color as the outer dress. Satin or velvet are entirely out of place on a young lady. Let the coiffure be of flowers
                           or ribbons, never feathers, and but very little jewelry is becoming to an unmarried lady. All ladies must wear boots or slippers
                           of satin, white, black, or the color of the dress. White are the most appropriate, black, the most becoming
                           to the foot. White kid gloves, full trimmed, a fine lace trimmed handkerchief, and a fan, are indispensable. Be very careful
                           when dressing for a ball, that the hair is firmly fastened, and the coiffure properly adjusted. Nothing is more annoying than
                           to have the hair loosen or the head-dress fall off in a crowded ball room.
 The
                           Ladies’ Book of Etiquette, Fashion and Manual of Politeness by
                           Florence Hartley, 1860, page 166-167.
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